"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get a phone number from a woman who speaks little English?

Deicide

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Hello, there is a waitress at a local Chinese restaraunt that I would like to get a phone number from. The only problem is that she speaks little English, and probably only knows Chinese best(which I don't know.) I'm really not sure how this would work out, but it would be interesting, and quite an accomplishment, to get a phone number from a girl like this. She's an HB 7, cute girl, and I really don't know how gaming her would be. I go out of my way to talk to her about things and I asked her during a snowy day "Did you drive to work through all this snow?" She said "Yes, it snowed a lot":crackup: It was funny, and I did laugh at her for it, but that was a good gauge that she doesn't know much about English.
There's always going to be other attractive waitresses that speak little English, but will fit this same situation, so any input or experience would be helpful. I would appreciate it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

rushing dude 123

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Hey bro I have gone out with girls where I have to actually get a google translator out to actually speak to them whilst on a date....If she has the the ability to capture a bit of what u are saying and say "yes it snowed a lot" then i think you are alright. Look at it this way if you had a hot girl come up to you who spoke little english and asked for your number, wouldn't you exchange digits? same rules apply.

Why don't u ask her and see how it goes whats so bad in trying anyway. We can't really even give you the answer to this question the only way you will find out is by asking her.

To be honest if she can't speak english that will probably increase her likelyhood in going out with you because she wants to learn. Also one more note don't
 

powpow

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I do this stuff all the time over here in japan.

just dont be serious about it at all and laugh, throw up the cell phone sign (hang loose in hawaii) and say something stupid like YOU GIVE ME. I CALL YOU. WE WATCH MOVIE. its kinda like a neghit/ c/f combo.

if shes cute and has a sense of humor, then its got a pretty good chance of working. if not, there are chinese restaraunts everywhere.
 

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i tried this once and got her number but when i called her it was hard to talk lol. didnt work out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SharinganUser

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Ask if she has a QQ account. All Chinese have QQ. Oh you could also pick up a phrase book.

Other than that, yah, just show her your phone.
 
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