"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to get a girl to like you....

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This article was written by a John Alexander and is one of the best articles out there.

http://www.becomeaplayer.com/articles/getgirltolikeyou.htm

This is the best part:


Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.

This is something we ALWAYS have to remember and I think it holds the key to avoid becoming desperate and needy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks for the link, will be busy reading all of that site.
 

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yey John Alexander!
Made alot of money by way of selling snow to the eskimo's? Good for him.
Wrote one of those corny get laid fast guides, have women approaching you, 20 per month, he guarantees it!! ****en douchebag.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Its wrong . Wrong mindset trying to get girls to like you .

That means you're trying to impress her , being needy and approval seeking .

And you're giving women all power . This is Anti All DJ/PUA rules .
Yeah, but this was the point I was trying to make and it is true.


Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.
 

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Meh. This ideas of this article are repeated ad nauseum on just about every PUA site and here as well. Should be pretty basic reading for anyone who has been at this site for over a week. Although nothing wrong with continuing to reinforce this mindset.
 

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Smack said:
Meh. This ideas of this article are repeated ad nauseum on just about every PUA site and here as well. Should be pretty basic reading for anyone who has been at this site for over a week. Although nothing wrong with continuing to reinforce this mindset.
Right. Our managers at work Drill safety into us on a daily basis. We have to know pages of the same ole stuff word for word. We're quizzed on it first thing in the morning. Then they make us take the Same tests over and over throughout the year on the computer. A Real pain in the ass. The military is full of Bull**** rules too, but we gotta take them.
 

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That's the most annoyingly ugly site I've ever seen. no thanks.

Also, what is it with "dating gurus" and paragraphs of no more than two sentences? Is it genetic? Do playas have a two-sentence paragraph limit?
 

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Guess it's meant to really drill the message into your brain. Oh well.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looks gimmicky to me. My gut tells me no.
 

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Why the fvck wouldn't a girl like me??? I have no big flaws they can't overlook....if they don't like me, fvck them. I'm successful and smart and not bad looking, basically I'm not an ugly slob and above average ni most respects. They'd be lucky to be w/me before they turn into old bags
 
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