"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This article was written by a John Alexander and is one of the best articles out there.

http://www.becomeaplayer.com/articles/getgirltolikeyou.htm

This is the best part:


Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.

This is something we ALWAYS have to remember and I think it holds the key to avoid becoming desperate and needy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks for the link, will be busy reading all of that site.
 

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yey John Alexander!
Made alot of money by way of selling snow to the eskimo's? Good for him.
Wrote one of those corny get laid fast guides, have women approaching you, 20 per month, he guarantees it!! ****en douchebag.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Its wrong . Wrong mindset trying to get girls to like you .

That means you're trying to impress her , being needy and approval seeking .

And you're giving women all power . This is Anti All DJ/PUA rules .
Yeah, but this was the point I was trying to make and it is true.


Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.
 

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Meh. This ideas of this article are repeated ad nauseum on just about every PUA site and here as well. Should be pretty basic reading for anyone who has been at this site for over a week. Although nothing wrong with continuing to reinforce this mindset.
 

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Smack said:
Meh. This ideas of this article are repeated ad nauseum on just about every PUA site and here as well. Should be pretty basic reading for anyone who has been at this site for over a week. Although nothing wrong with continuing to reinforce this mindset.
Right. Our managers at work Drill safety into us on a daily basis. We have to know pages of the same ole stuff word for word. We're quizzed on it first thing in the morning. Then they make us take the Same tests over and over throughout the year on the computer. A Real pain in the ass. The military is full of Bull**** rules too, but we gotta take them.
 

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That's the most annoyingly ugly site I've ever seen. no thanks.

Also, what is it with "dating gurus" and paragraphs of no more than two sentences? Is it genetic? Do playas have a two-sentence paragraph limit?
 

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Guess it's meant to really drill the message into your brain. Oh well.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looks gimmicky to me. My gut tells me no.
 

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Why the fvck wouldn't a girl like me??? I have no big flaws they can't overlook....if they don't like me, fvck them. I'm successful and smart and not bad looking, basically I'm not an ugly slob and above average ni most respects. They'd be lucky to be w/me before they turn into old bags
 
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