Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This article was written by a John Alexander and is one of the best articles out there.

http://www.becomeaplayer.com/articles/getgirltolikeyou.htm

This is the best part:


Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.

This is something we ALWAYS have to remember and I think it holds the key to avoid becoming desperate and needy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Poonani Maker

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Thanks for the link, will be busy reading all of that site.
 

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yey John Alexander!
Made alot of money by way of selling snow to the eskimo's? Good for him.
Wrote one of those corny get laid fast guides, have women approaching you, 20 per month, he guarantees it!! ****en douchebag.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Its wrong . Wrong mindset trying to get girls to like you .

That means you're trying to impress her , being needy and approval seeking .

And you're giving women all power . This is Anti All DJ/PUA rules .
Yeah, but this was the point I was trying to make and it is true.


Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.
 

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Meh. This ideas of this article are repeated ad nauseum on just about every PUA site and here as well. Should be pretty basic reading for anyone who has been at this site for over a week. Although nothing wrong with continuing to reinforce this mindset.
 

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Smack said:
Meh. This ideas of this article are repeated ad nauseum on just about every PUA site and here as well. Should be pretty basic reading for anyone who has been at this site for over a week. Although nothing wrong with continuing to reinforce this mindset.
Right. Our managers at work Drill safety into us on a daily basis. We have to know pages of the same ole stuff word for word. We're quizzed on it first thing in the morning. Then they make us take the Same tests over and over throughout the year on the computer. A Real pain in the ass. The military is full of Bull**** rules too, but we gotta take them.
 

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That's the most annoyingly ugly site I've ever seen. no thanks.

Also, what is it with "dating gurus" and paragraphs of no more than two sentences? Is it genetic? Do playas have a two-sentence paragraph limit?
 

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Guess it's meant to really drill the message into your brain. Oh well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Looks gimmicky to me. My gut tells me no.
 

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Why the fvck wouldn't a girl like me??? I have no big flaws they can't overlook....if they don't like me, fvck them. I'm successful and smart and not bad looking, basically I'm not an ugly slob and above average ni most respects. They'd be lucky to be w/me before they turn into old bags
 
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