Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Interesting, I bet MOST guys do not ever get to experience a threesome though...although I am sure it is most guys #1 fantasy!!Originally posted by Dante1a
Something that has worked for me in several situations was taught to me by a PUA friend.
You get both girls alone (preferably sitting a blanket on the floor, etc). Mention that this friend of yours who is a holistic healer (or shaman, or whatever) had you receive a two on one massage.
Tell them he promised it would balance your 'energies' by being able to draw on the superior balances of two people (instead of one person's possible energy difficencies.)
Get one girl (probably the one who wants the LTR) and have her lay down first. You and the other girl start massaging her. When that is done, get the other girl to lay down (try to get the shirt off at some point, but no big deal yet. Then, unabashedly start kissing the girl your massaging with..the other will join in most likely.
Don't apologize for wanting sex or a threesome. The only difference between a LTR girl and a HB at this point is if you call her after the sex. Don't push though..let it happen. Make it a "new experience". lol Tell her that if she objects.
I've also been told this exact scenario is in this book "The Game." I haven't checked it out yet, but maybe that's where my friend got it.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.