"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to get a girl to fool around spontaneously?

mesarectoverb

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The scoop:
I'm hanging out with this chick tomorrow, and I really want to randomly fool around with her. I'm thinking of using lots of kino, maybe get into a wrestling match, and pinning her down and kissing her then seeing where things go.

What are your opinions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bombshell

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You could have stated a little more info like where you are going to be hooking up at but just make sure you "bust her balls" and use lots of c/f and teasing. Kino is good but you can forget about the whole wrestling match or whatever unless you have a really good background with her already.
 

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Yah more info would be helpfull but i have to agree kino is good but unless she is crazy over you then its not enough to get to wrestle her. I have to admit, wrestling a chick sounds fun. i should try that.:D
 

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sounds to me like you plan on using the rape technique, no really you should just mess around and do it
 

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1. Isolate her.
2. Make her horny.
3. Kiss and then escalate. (She will be quite willing if she finds you attractive and she doesnt think your going to tell your friends [for the love of god DO NOT tell her you wont tell any one] )
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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teedo

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i suggest u get close to her a couple times. do sum keno ****. and then put ur hand around her neck, slowly fling her hair behind her neck. then look her deep in the eyes. smile. and if she smiles back, go for it. this has worked for me many a time. good luck ;)
 

Supero Masculus

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Originally posted by teedo
i suggest u get close to her a couple times. do sum keno ****. and then put ur hand around her neck, slowly fling her hair behind her neck. then look her deep in the eyes. smile. and if she smiles back, go for it. this has worked for me many a time. good luck ;)
Nice!:D I've gotta try that one!
 

Smooth as Anything

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why not? what else should u say?
Don't bring it up...

If she asks, just respond

"Whoever you want me to..."
 

wh01987

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I have twice in the last couple weeks got a girl to take her shirt off and makeout after knowing them for well the first like in 9 hours then the second in like 30 mins but the first to makeout in under 30 call me 30 minute man ...... haha

If i can do it so can you! first off hold her hand or cuddle if u can then hold her hand nthen kinda feel her leg or somthin then go from there to kissing then kinda rub their stomach and keep on trucken
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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