"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to get a girl to emotionally invest ?

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I'm being dating a girl for 2 month, but she seems that she is not emotionally investing into the relationship. I mean she seems to be indifference, whatever I do she doesn't care. This is actually a bad sign it means I might get dump soon. She actually just got out of a relationship of 5 years, so she is actually emotionally closed. My question is how can I get her to emotionally invest into the relationship?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ubercat

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[double sigh] 1 this isn't a tip and 2 - you haven't read the DJ bible.

You shouldn't be trying to get a girl to invest. You should be plating, and screening to see which ones are investing. Go read the bible - that is the entrance price.
 

sph21

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You're obviously trying to become feminine by trying to make her investing in a relationship. Stop this! It's her job to create emotional connections to you. If she doesn't want to do her job, then you should not do hers. It's just plain stupid. I suggest you to read The Way of the Superior Man-David Deida to understand how to become a real man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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