Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How To Get A Girl Friend !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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First you must address the shyness factor

use ALBERT ELLIS SHAME EXERCISES
Go out on the street stop ten people and say
" i just been released from the loony bin what s the date today "

literally coerce yourself to it

do it for 10 days

it will help you to bust your shyness

LESSON 2 on monday ( i know you can t wait )

by the way feel free to ask me Qs about the above
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not sure if it's going to work well if you live in a village though:)
IMHO, there are many ways to get rid of the shyness, without getting terribly embarrassed in front of random people on the street.
 

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nicholas

i may be retarded but this technique is based on the teachings of one of the greatest shrinks of the century ALBERT ELLIS the father of cognitive psychology
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Desdinova said:
There's no forum rules against being retarded.
xD Hahahahahaha
 
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