"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How To Get A Girl Friend !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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First you must address the shyness factor

use ALBERT ELLIS SHAME EXERCISES
Go out on the street stop ten people and say
" i just been released from the loony bin what s the date today "

literally coerce yourself to it

do it for 10 days

it will help you to bust your shyness

LESSON 2 on monday ( i know you can t wait )

by the way feel free to ask me Qs about the above
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not sure if it's going to work well if you live in a village though:)
IMHO, there are many ways to get rid of the shyness, without getting terribly embarrassed in front of random people on the street.
 

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i may be retarded but this technique is based on the teachings of one of the greatest shrinks of the century ALBERT ELLIS the father of cognitive psychology
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Desdinova said:
There's no forum rules against being retarded.
xD Hahahahahaha
 
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