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Best. Tip. Evarr!Originally posted by rgeere
And don't forget the tequilla!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Best. Tip. Evarr!Originally posted by rgeere
And don't forget the tequilla!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I've been dating a latina loca for about a year. I don't know about the eye contact comment....butOriginally posted by cinephile
Thanks for the responses everybody.
No, not all girls are the same.
There are certain thinks which are unique to Latins that we don't see in American women.
1. It is hard to get eye conatct with them. They will deliberately try to look away from you.
2. They don't think anything about being 20 to 40 minutes late.
3. Latin women don't dress down. Yeah, they may be casual, but they always try to look their best. Latin American is actually the world's largest consumer of makeup.
4. They really seem to require a lot more social proof before anything.
Now I am talking about girls from Latin America, not the J Lo wanabee's who were born here and can't speak spanish.
So any other advice/comments?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.