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Best. Tip. Evarr!Originally posted by rgeere
And don't forget the tequilla!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Best. Tip. Evarr!Originally posted by rgeere
And don't forget the tequilla!
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I've been dating a latina loca for about a year. I don't know about the eye contact comment....butOriginally posted by cinephile
Thanks for the responses everybody.
No, not all girls are the same.
There are certain thinks which are unique to Latins that we don't see in American women.
1. It is hard to get eye conatct with them. They will deliberately try to look away from you.
2. They don't think anything about being 20 to 40 minutes late.
3. Latin women don't dress down. Yeah, they may be casual, but they always try to look their best. Latin American is actually the world's largest consumer of makeup.
4. They really seem to require a lot more social proof before anything.
Now I am talking about girls from Latin America, not the J Lo wanabee's who were born here and can't speak spanish.
So any other advice/comments?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.