"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to game Latin girls

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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not all chicks are the same, for instance: the way you talk to a conservative muslim girl is very different than the way you would talk to any white girl. Latinas are my favorite, i want one so bad; well, maybe two.
 

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Originally posted by cinephile
Thanks for the responses everybody.

No, not all girls are the same.

There are certain thinks which are unique to Latins that we don't see in American women.

1. It is hard to get eye conatct with them. They will deliberately try to look away from you.

2. They don't think anything about being 20 to 40 minutes late.

3. Latin women don't dress down. Yeah, they may be casual, but they always try to look their best. Latin American is actually the world's largest consumer of makeup.

4. They really seem to require a lot more social proof before anything.

Now I am talking about girls from Latin America, not the J Lo wanabee's who were born here and can't speak spanish.

So any other advice/comments?
I've been dating a latina loca for about a year. I don't know about the eye contact comment....but

Spanish people live on "Spanish time". They are usually late. That's true.

And the makeup thing. Oh my god, my girl needs to touch up her makeup to go take a shyt. Seriously her and her sisters have so much makeup it's ridiculous.

It is very true that they usually want a more dominant/assertive man. This is because in most latin countries men have not been castrated and robbed of their manhood like most North American men. They're used to men being a$$holes to women(cheating, abuse etc) because this is how a lot of latin men act in their countries. In most latin countries the men take the idea of "machismo" very seriously.

And before someone goes "Well I know this ONE spanish girl who's not like that", all of what's been said is for the MAJORITY of them, of course there are some exceptions.
 

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We always joke about latina's pulling knives on men. They have such an aggressive culuture.
 

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I think I will have to agree with the consensus that Latin girls in general seem to want a more dominate man. Not necessarily some hyper Alpha type ( but I'm sure those would do well) or a jerk, but one who comes across as being totally in charge. My Grandfather and Uncle are like that and they completely ruled their households. Hmmm, I am going to have rethink some things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm cuban...... All girls.....its pretty much the same..... White,Black,Chineese,Muslim,Other Cubans,and Central American girls.........(since i live in miami I only see a mexican once in a blue moon)

I've gotten all those kinda girls attracted to me.... Just Hispanic girls.... Know EXACTLY what a wussy is.....and what a dominant male is...... All those 'Novelas' (soap operas) Shows exactly what a wussy is and what he does and how he acts....and characteristics of a Dominant male...

They're all basically the same for me......
 
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