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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to gain weight with Acid Reflux

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hey everyone,

To start off, Im 20 and 6' tall.

2 years ago, i weighed 138 pounds.. i didnt like the way i looked so i started bulking and taking in about 6K-7K calories daily. After gaining thirty pounds in about 6 months, one night i woke up in the middle of the night cause i coudlnt breathe, my heart was beating fast, i was sweating. I thought i was having a heart attack, but it turned out to be acid reflux. I was told to stop taking whey protein and not eating as much.

If i ate more than 3 meals a day i would get crazy heart burn and my throat would close up, and i ended up losing 20pounds. After few months of taking Prilosec i was back to being normal, and started bulking again and till last week i weighed 194 lbs.

But now its back, and again, i cant eat anything.
This time i have a new doctor she told me to reduce my protein intake significantly.

So my question is.. how do bodybuilders that have acid reflux gain weight?
Its really hard for me to gain any weight and on top of that i have acid reflux and its frustrating.

Anyone got any tips?
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quagmire911

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I would do your own research on this. Doctors seem to get an awful lot of s*** like this wrong. Not saying neccasarily in this case, just an observation. They just want to give you pills and not treat the roots of the problem. My Mum has this and I was surprised (shouldn't have been) when she said she had only been to her GP about it. They didn't bother sending her to a specialist or anything. Here are some pills and out the door. Warranted of course if there is nothing more that can be done, but I doubt it.

These are a bunch of people that say saturated fat is bad, and that eating eggs raises cholestrol. So yeh, do some reasearch and draw some conclusions of your own.
 

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I had the same problem (no so severe). I found that after eliminating all grains from my diet the problem went within in a month.
 

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wolf116 said:
I had the same problem (no so severe). I found that after eliminating all grains from my diet the problem went within in a month.
grains as in wheat? protein?
 

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Mostly wheat, but others like oats also. My house-mate also gets it, he takes massive medication for it while I have just eliminated it from my diet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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falcon814

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but ... lol. I dunno how im supposed to live without Protein...
 

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falcon I had a similar problem albeit not as bad.. earlier this year. My doc wanted me to see tons of professionals because I was getting pain from what I was eating as well as lots of stomach acid/reflux. I've also had this before as well.

I fixed the problem myself with some diet troubleshooting and you could likely too. Basically get a baseline for feeling ok for several days. Once thats established add one thing you were eating before, only ONE THING. If your ok after adding it for a few days/week then add another. Keep doing this until you react negatively. This'll tell you what your body can't handle anymore. Put on your lab coat and give that a try.

Also maybe it could also be your brand of whey your using.. not protien in general? *shrugs*
 

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hmm ok.. well im almost out of this protein, ill start a new one soon.

Lets see if i notice any change.

I did however start taking Digestive Enzymes and they have helped a LOT.

So if anyone is having the same problems, give digestive enzymes a shot.

I take 2 pills after every meal.
 

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falcon814 said:
but ... lol. I dunno how im supposed to live without Protein...
What the hell dose wheat have to do with protein?
 

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Pro-biotics and enzymes can help.

Also try to eliminate dairy and wheat to see what happens, but only one at a time, like JohnnyIrish suggested.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dr. B Jacobson, study author, from Boston University School of Medicine, USA, said that his study shows that any excess weight may have a negative effect on health, even small amounts which would not class the person as overweight. In other words, a person of normal weight who gains a bit of weight - and is still considered to be of normal weight - can become more prone to GERD.
 
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