"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to gain Confidence. NOW!

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With so many posts about confidence what else could possibly be said about the matter? Probably nothing, but one thing I've noticed is that most posts about confidence are way too long and full of way too many words and ideas. No wonder so many people think confidence is some elusive thing that is difficult to attain.

Gaining confidence is simple when you know how.

First you have to realize that Confidence = Experience

Experience at what??? Experience at taking Risks

What is a Risk??? Doing something you Fear, something you might Fail, or something you normally wouldn't Do.

Start seeking out things that make you feel afraid, unsure, and uncomfortable.

Quit whining and searching for something or someone to give you confidence.

Go out and get it yourself! Take risks. Its the only way. Simple.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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****ty post.

If u dont have the confidence, then fake it.

I thin u got having confidence confused with having the balls to do something.

U might have the balls to do something, but that doesnt mean u'll be confident when u do it
 
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This is a great post. You will never have confidence when doing something until you've done it several times already.
 
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