How to gain Confidence. NOW!

[Slickster]

With so many posts about confidence what else could possibly be said about the matter? Probably nothing, but one thing I've noticed is that most posts about confidence are way too long and full of way too many words and ideas. No wonder so many people think confidence is some elusive thing that is difficult to attain.

Gaining confidence is simple when you know how.

First you have to realize that Confidence = Experience

Experience at what??? Experience at taking Risks

What is a Risk??? Doing something you Fear, something you might Fail, or something you normally wouldn't Do.

Start seeking out things that make you feel afraid, unsure, and uncomfortable.

Quit whining and searching for something or someone to give you confidence.

Go out and get it yourself! Take risks. Its the only way. Simple.

 

[Ratisson]

****ty post.

If u dont have the confidence, then fake it.

I thin u got having confidence confused with having the balls to do something.

U might have the balls to do something, but that doesnt mean u'll be confident when u do it

 

[dbot]

This is a great post. You will never have confidence when doing something until you've done it several times already.

 

[Miles Davis]

True post.

Nice way of putting it as well, Gigalo