Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to gain a woman's interest back and not be boring

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The other study comes off as a little agenda-driven, which always produces less trustworthy results. However, it's well established that women are attracted to different types of men, in different points in their monthly cycles. When women are most fertile, they are attracted to more traditionally masculine men. The Pill disrupts this natural cycle, trapping a woman in a cycle of being attracted to LESS traditionally masculine men...until she goes off the Pill, post marriage, and discovers she married a dude about as attractive to her as her sister(most of the month), assuming she was unfortunate enough to marry a male-feminist pajama-boy. If she married a traditionally masculine man, on the other hand, she might suddenly get really turned on by what she previously considered his "toxic masculinity."

There have been lots of studies, but as usual, much like a Rorschach test, people who don't like the anti social-engineering implications will see whatever they want to see in the results.


The difference could be anything from a quickie divorce...to a woman who'll only reluctantly service her unfortunate husband, but only when there's cyclically little chance of her getting pregnant...to a woman who practically rapes her husband, at certain times of the month, but is certainly an eager participant all month.

I guess I know where I stand then. What do you do in that case just skip a couple weeks talking to the woman?
 

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The other study comes off as a little agenda-driven, which always produces less trustworthy results. However, it's well established that women are attracted to different types of men, in different points in their monthly cycles. When women are most fertile, they are attracted to more traditionally masculine men. The Pill disrupts this natural cycle, trapping a woman in a cycle of being attracted to LESS traditionally masculine men...until she goes off the Pill, post marriage, and discovers she married a dude about as attractive to her as her sister(most of the month), assuming she was unfortunate enough to marry a male-feminist pajama-boy. If she married a traditionally masculine man, on the other hand, she might suddenly get really turned on by what she previously considered his "toxic masculinity."

There have been lots of studies, but as usual, much like a Rorschach test, people who don't like the anti social-engineering implications will see whatever they want to see in the results.


The difference could be anything from a quickie divorce...to a woman who'll only reluctantly service her unfortunate husband, but only when there's cyclically little chance of her getting pregnant...to a woman who practically rapes her husband, at certain times of the month, but is certainly an eager participant all month.
Can’t see the whole article, it’s behind a paywall. However this study came up in a broader search - Doesn’t sound like consensus on the matter.

 
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