Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to fvck in the car

asianbboy

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I've never done this before. I just can't work out how to comfortably do it in the car. I can't drive, so it makes it weirder. Do I just ask her to drive off into an alley somewhere? I've imagined the scenario:
1. Park somewhere
2. How do I get her to go to the back seat? Not physically possible to bang in the front.
3. Now we're in the back, make out.
4. Get some head, condom on
5. Allllmost certain she's going to say no the first time around, kind of inexperienced girl. But she likes me a lot.
6. Now what?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr Wright

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Ive banged a couples of girls in cars and it really is a last resort...its more about the experience than good sex because its bloody uncomfortable.

If she is not completely down though, I'd work on finding another location
 

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asianbboy said:
I've never done this before. I just can't work out how to comfortably do it in the car. You can't comfortably do it in the car lol I can't drive, so it makes it weirder. Do I just ask No tell her. Have a place in mind n tell her. her to drive off into an alley somewhere? I've imagined the scenario:
1. Park somewhere
2. How do I get her to go to the back seat? You start making out in the front seat. As you guys are leaning over the middle section thing and making out you stop, push her away and say "I can't do this...this thing's jabbing me...let's go to the back". Get out and go to the back. Not physically possible to bang in the front. Skoot the seat all the way back and lean it all the way back and she can get on top.
3. Now we're in the back, make out.
4. Get some head, condom on
5. Allllmost certain she's going to say no the first time around You say 'ok', kind of inexperienced girl. But she likes me a lot.
6. Now what? Keep making out and pushing the boundaries
Overall, the car ****ing sucks, i'd go somewhere else.
 

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You bunch of lames. You sit her in your lap and let HER do the work. MANY women prefer this position, actually.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dedication

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AlexyLefty's red text and twentee know whats up. Its uncomfortable but who gives a ****, you're just having a good time and she is very do-able in the car. Getting her from the front to the back and from the back on your lap is pretty much how its done. Assuming you're not a virgin and know how to work a girl, this isn't much different but just in different location.

Also: Steamy Windows.
 

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twentee said:
You bunch of lames. You sit her in your lap and let HER do the work. MANY women prefer this position, actually.
Apparently MANY women also prefer to be shipped overseas to their husbands here in the US to work for their husbands and give them a percentage of their minimum wage job which they will then invest in trucking to retire at the age of 40 right?

Or so I hear...
 

AlexLefty

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BPH said:
Apparently MANY women also prefer to be shipped overseas to their husbands here in the US to work for their husbands and give them a percentage of their minimum wage job which they will then invest in trucking to retire at the age of 40 right?

Or so I hear...
^Ha. http://i.imgur.com/VbTp7.jpg
 

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So what do you suggest? it's warm out, what about doing it outside?
I don't think I could get a motel.
 

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cars are pretty tough to **** in unless they're bigger like SUVs or something. always always have a blanket in the car for her to lie down on or something. keep a box of tissues too. so girls might get off while on top but besides that you can try to lay her down in the back and do it that way. you can kinda kneel with one leg on the floor the other on the seat.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you cant get a hotel or motel, try hers, to get round just be like "oh you know that dvd we said we'd watch, I Am Legend or whatever it is, you provide the cinema, i'll bring the popcorn and the dvd."
I have had sex in all kinds of weird places, public toilets in shopping centres, in parks, in fields behind hedges, in the grounds of a church(yeah go on shoot me for it), in school and you can do a fair bit in the back of a cinema...all because I didnt want my mum to know what a dirty little boy her son is. Of course the girls really are not sure about doing it, so you just have to ease their concern by saying something like "dont worry about it, it'll be fine" and escalate...just escalate.
 
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