"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how to friendzone a girl

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kirro

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Well you can do what girls do to us & string her along & then give her the LJBF speech if she makes a move. However sometimes girls who are into you can seriously CB you if you try to use her to get to her friends.

Here's a trick I used to do. Invite the chick out with her friends & bring some of your friends(provided they aren't useless) & while your friends keep her occupied you use that window to socialize with her friends.

Basically you never want to be alone with her, you always want to keep the interactions casual & obviously you don't do anything sexual with her or your plan will go up in smoke unless she's freaky.
 

jophil28

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YOu do not have to do anything much. There is no requirement for you to make a formal LJBF announcement to her - in fact, doing so may just open up an opportunity for her to take whatever you say and distort it into you being an azzhole and then misreport it to your circle.

My advice- say nothing, do nothing . Her feelings are all her's and not your place to resolve.
 

GetOveIT

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Just start talking about other girls and how hot they are :crackup:
 

runner83

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jophil28 said:
YOu do not have to do anything much. There is no requirement for you to make a formal LJBF announcement to her - in fact, doing so may just open up an opportunity for her to take whatever you say and distort it into you being an azzhole and then misreport it to your circle.

My advice- say nothing, do nothing . Her feelings are all her's and not your place to resolve.
Yes, probably Jophil's advice on this would be best.

Normally, I'd recommend the anti-DJ actions (e.g. make yourself available etc etc), but if only a HB6, this may actually backfire on you and end up working since she knows she can't get a better guy.

Don't say anything and put her offside, or your chance to bang the best friend may disappear.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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