"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how to friendzone a girl

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kirro

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Well you can do what girls do to us & string her along & then give her the LJBF speech if she makes a move. However sometimes girls who are into you can seriously CB you if you try to use her to get to her friends.

Here's a trick I used to do. Invite the chick out with her friends & bring some of your friends(provided they aren't useless) & while your friends keep her occupied you use that window to socialize with her friends.

Basically you never want to be alone with her, you always want to keep the interactions casual & obviously you don't do anything sexual with her or your plan will go up in smoke unless she's freaky.
 

jophil28

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YOu do not have to do anything much. There is no requirement for you to make a formal LJBF announcement to her - in fact, doing so may just open up an opportunity for her to take whatever you say and distort it into you being an azzhole and then misreport it to your circle.

My advice- say nothing, do nothing . Her feelings are all her's and not your place to resolve.
 

GetOveIT

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Just start talking about other girls and how hot they are :crackup:
 

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jophil28 said:
YOu do not have to do anything much. There is no requirement for you to make a formal LJBF announcement to her - in fact, doing so may just open up an opportunity for her to take whatever you say and distort it into you being an azzhole and then misreport it to your circle.

My advice- say nothing, do nothing . Her feelings are all her's and not your place to resolve.
Yes, probably Jophil's advice on this would be best.

Normally, I'd recommend the anti-DJ actions (e.g. make yourself available etc etc), but if only a HB6, this may actually backfire on you and end up working since she knows she can't get a better guy.

Don't say anything and put her offside, or your chance to bang the best friend may disappear.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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