"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How To Flirt With Women

bachelor

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Flirting with women is a touchy subject because if you flirt too much with the girl she might think of you as clingy. Here are a few tips on how to flirt with women to make them feel attracted to you:

1. Eye Contact- eye contact is the best way to flirt with a girl right off the bat. Make sure to give her one look in the eye and not to smile right away. This will make her wonder if your interested or not.

2. Hold her hand- when you introduce yourself touch her hand and give it a small shake. Make sure to look into her eyes while you do this. For the bold guys, give her a kiss on the cheek and be like that’s how I introduce myself. In Miami and in latin countries, most people greet each other with a kiss on the cheek. You can use this to your advantage to create sexual energy.

3. Tease her- I absolutely love this one… I will touch a girl when she’s not looking and look the other way, poke her, and mess with her all night. This is a good way to flirt with women because it creates anticipation.

4. Humor- making women laugh is a great way to flirt with them. I am always making jokes and entertaining women. Some people say the key to a woman’s heart is humor and I think it’s true. Here is an example- if she touches me I usually say, “look I’m not like the other guys you know so I don’t know why you are flirting with me.” This will make them laugh and wonder if your serious. It’s a great way to create attraction.

5. Kiss Test- I will usually play with girls and tell them I don’t kiss on the first date. By doing this, I set the frame and they want to kiss me on the first night. There is a technique that I use to make a girl want to kiss me. I whisper in her ear and blow in it. I talk in her ear lightly and if I’m on the dance floor I shake my hips with hers. By blowing in her ear, I have created sexual energy. Most of the time, the girl will kiss me and if she doesn’t I’ll blow a light kiss on her lip. She will make out if she’s interested, trust me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PigAdlemPimp

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Congratulations dude for this awesome thread, you are spot on with the Eye Contact and the Holding The Hot Babes Hand tips, the others I don't use that much but if they work keep on using them.

I always look straight into the hot babes eyes and shake her hand as well, this works for me.

Another important thing that I do is I deepen the tone of my voice when I am talking to a hot babe, when I do this I find it so much easier to allure them. :up:
 

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I like this a lot, some stuff I'd like too add...

Vocal Projection - A good voice goes a long way and is very important. Make sure you're loud and EXPRESIVE. So many guys aren't expressive when they talk. Girls will laugh at almost anything if you're expessive. So many good things going on when your expressive.

Be Expressive - Be expressive in you're facial expressions, your body language, you're overall internal state. Bring that raw personality out and you'll be having some great flirty interactions.
 
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