"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How To Flirt With Women

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Flirting with women is a touchy subject because if you flirt too much with the girl she might think of you as clingy. Here are a few tips on how to flirt with women to make them feel attracted to you:

1. Eye Contact- eye contact is the best way to flirt with a girl right off the bat. Make sure to give her one look in the eye and not to smile right away. This will make her wonder if your interested or not.

2. Hold her hand- when you introduce yourself touch her hand and give it a small shake. Make sure to look into her eyes while you do this. For the bold guys, give her a kiss on the cheek and be like that’s how I introduce myself. In Miami and in latin countries, most people greet each other with a kiss on the cheek. You can use this to your advantage to create sexual energy.

3. Tease her- I absolutely love this one… I will touch a girl when she’s not looking and look the other way, poke her, and mess with her all night. This is a good way to flirt with women because it creates anticipation.

4. Humor- making women laugh is a great way to flirt with them. I am always making jokes and entertaining women. Some people say the key to a woman’s heart is humor and I think it’s true. Here is an example- if she touches me I usually say, “look I’m not like the other guys you know so I don’t know why you are flirting with me.” This will make them laugh and wonder if your serious. It’s a great way to create attraction.

5. Kiss Test- I will usually play with girls and tell them I don’t kiss on the first date. By doing this, I set the frame and they want to kiss me on the first night. There is a technique that I use to make a girl want to kiss me. I whisper in her ear and blow in it. I talk in her ear lightly and if I’m on the dance floor I shake my hips with hers. By blowing in her ear, I have created sexual energy. Most of the time, the girl will kiss me and if she doesn’t I’ll blow a light kiss on her lip. She will make out if she’s interested, trust me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Congratulations dude for this awesome thread, you are spot on with the Eye Contact and the Holding The Hot Babes Hand tips, the others I don't use that much but if they work keep on using them.

I always look straight into the hot babes eyes and shake her hand as well, this works for me.

Another important thing that I do is I deepen the tone of my voice when I am talking to a hot babe, when I do this I find it so much easier to allure them. :up:
 

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I like this a lot, some stuff I'd like too add...

Vocal Projection - A good voice goes a long way and is very important. Make sure you're loud and EXPRESIVE. So many guys aren't expressive when they talk. Girls will laugh at almost anything if you're expessive. So many good things going on when your expressive.

Be Expressive - Be expressive in you're facial expressions, your body language, you're overall internal state. Bring that raw personality out and you'll be having some great flirty interactions.
 
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