“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How To Flirt With Women

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Flirting with women is a touchy subject because if you flirt too much with the girl she might think of you as clingy. Here are a few tips on how to flirt with women to make them feel attracted to you:

1. Eye Contact- eye contact is the best way to flirt with a girl right off the bat. Make sure to give her one look in the eye and not to smile right away. This will make her wonder if your interested or not.

2. Hold her hand- when you introduce yourself touch her hand and give it a small shake. Make sure to look into her eyes while you do this. For the bold guys, give her a kiss on the cheek and be like that’s how I introduce myself. In Miami and in latin countries, most people greet each other with a kiss on the cheek. You can use this to your advantage to create sexual energy.

3. Tease her- I absolutely love this one… I will touch a girl when she’s not looking and look the other way, poke her, and mess with her all night. This is a good way to flirt with women because it creates anticipation.

4. Humor- making women laugh is a great way to flirt with them. I am always making jokes and entertaining women. Some people say the key to a woman’s heart is humor and I think it’s true. Here is an example- if she touches me I usually say, “look I’m not like the other guys you know so I don’t know why you are flirting with me.” This will make them laugh and wonder if your serious. It’s a great way to create attraction.

5. Kiss Test- I will usually play with girls and tell them I don’t kiss on the first date. By doing this, I set the frame and they want to kiss me on the first night. There is a technique that I use to make a girl want to kiss me. I whisper in her ear and blow in it. I talk in her ear lightly and if I’m on the dance floor I shake my hips with hers. By blowing in her ear, I have created sexual energy. Most of the time, the girl will kiss me and if she doesn’t I’ll blow a light kiss on her lip. She will make out if she’s interested, trust me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Congratulations dude for this awesome thread, you are spot on with the Eye Contact and the Holding The Hot Babes Hand tips, the others I don't use that much but if they work keep on using them.

I always look straight into the hot babes eyes and shake her hand as well, this works for me.

Another important thing that I do is I deepen the tone of my voice when I am talking to a hot babe, when I do this I find it so much easier to allure them. :up:
 

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I like this a lot, some stuff I'd like too add...

Vocal Projection - A good voice goes a long way and is very important. Make sure you're loud and EXPRESIVE. So many guys aren't expressive when they talk. Girls will laugh at almost anything if you're expessive. So many good things going on when your expressive.

Be Expressive - Be expressive in you're facial expressions, your body language, you're overall internal state. Bring that raw personality out and you'll be having some great flirty interactions.
 
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