I'm in a group of people that meets once or twice a week. I like a few of the women in that group and I want to try my chances with all of them.
I intent to start with the one that seems more open to me and then proceed to the rest. Whether I succeed or not doesn't matter to me, what I want is to be able to have a shot with all of them, one by one. I'm afraid that if they see me flirt with one (whether she responds or not) I'll sabotage my attempt with the rest because a woman that sees me first flirting with another might think:
I'm 37 (I look younger, maybe even 27) and most of the women there are 20 to 26, so that gives me an advantage on intellect. However... I'm very inexperienced in flirting, let alone having a brief affair or a long term relationship. I probably wouldn't attempt the later with woman 10+ years younger than me, anyway. I'm not a virgin and I've made out with a few women. I'm bellow average on social awkwardness.
I see this situation as an experience that'll teach me things, and I want to experiment and learn from my mistakes. I want to do mistakes. That's the way it works for me. What I'm asking is advice on how to avoid the big mistakes so will ruin my chances to continue the experience.
I don't have a goal (i.e. manage to sleep with one of them). What I'm after is to feel a naturality in flirting and an infatuation. I feed on the mutual attraction that exists between me and a woman and the game that unfolds from that.
I want to play nice, so no pick-up artistry that plays on people's insecurities (i.e. Eric von Markovik's stuff). I appreciate and like these women. I want to be gentle with them.
I intent to start with the one that seems more open to me and then proceed to the rest. Whether I succeed or not doesn't matter to me, what I want is to be able to have a shot with all of them, one by one. I'm afraid that if they see me flirt with one (whether she responds or not) I'll sabotage my attempt with the rest because a woman that sees me first flirting with another might think:
Or:
There is the apparent choice of only flirting in private, but lets talk about what are my options if I can't manage to make this happen.
I'm 37 (I look younger, maybe even 27) and most of the women there are 20 to 26, so that gives me an advantage on intellect. However... I'm very inexperienced in flirting, let alone having a brief affair or a long term relationship. I probably wouldn't attempt the later with woman 10+ years younger than me, anyway. I'm not a virgin and I've made out with a few women. I'm bellow average on social awkwardness.
I see this situation as an experience that'll teach me things, and I want to experiment and learn from my mistakes. I want to do mistakes. That's the way it works for me. What I'm asking is advice on how to avoid the big mistakes so will ruin my chances to continue the experience.
I don't have a goal (i.e. manage to sleep with one of them). What I'm after is to feel a naturality in flirting and an infatuation. I feed on the mutual attraction that exists between me and a woman and the game that unfolds from that.
I want to play nice, so no pick-up artistry that plays on people's insecurities (i.e. Eric von Markovik's stuff). I appreciate and like these women. I want to be gentle with them.
