"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how to flirt in library and bookstore

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ok this may be weird but how do you flirt or give me some examples you would do to flirt or create interest in a girl you saw randomly like at the public library, bookstore. i mean i can walk up to em and start chatting right, but what would i say to create it in a flirty and i am interested in dating you kind of way. these are generally overseas international korean and japanese girls in my library .
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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I'd probably ask her to help you find a book. Make up something ridiculous. For example,

You: "Can you help me find a book in the *whatever* section?"
Her: Sure
You: It's about how to make every girl swoon just by talking to her. I sent it in to the publisher but I didn't know if they had it in stores yet. You see, I wrote it.

Or

She's looking at a book.

You: Is that the one where the guy has to kill like 1000 ninjas with only the help of a poor Indian boy and pocket knife?!

Her: no....

You: Oh...well, why are you bothering to read it then? Psst...
 
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If you're in a library or a bookstore there should not be any reason why the conversation would be lacking. Comment about the book in her hands, start up a conversation about other books, move from there to the coffee shop that seems to be in all bookstores now and it becomes an insta-date.
 
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