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how to flirt in library and bookstore

joe45

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ok this may be weird but how do you flirt or give me some examples you would do to flirt or create interest in a girl you saw randomly like at the public library, bookstore. i mean i can walk up to em and start chatting right, but what would i say to create it in a flirty and i am interested in dating you kind of way. these are generally overseas international korean and japanese girls in my library .
 

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I'd probably ask her to help you find a book. Make up something ridiculous. For example,

You: "Can you help me find a book in the *whatever* section?"
Her: Sure
You: It's about how to make every girl swoon just by talking to her. I sent it in to the publisher but I didn't know if they had it in stores yet. You see, I wrote it.

Or

She's looking at a book.

You: Is that the one where the guy has to kill like 1000 ninjas with only the help of a poor Indian boy and pocket knife?!

Her: no....

You: Oh...well, why are you bothering to read it then? Psst...
 

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If you're in a library or a bookstore there should not be any reason why the conversation would be lacking. Comment about the book in her hands, start up a conversation about other books, move from there to the coffee shop that seems to be in all bookstores now and it becomes an insta-date.
 
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