If you are talking cold approach...
Try this to get you back in the game.
Approach ugly girls. It will teach you indifference. Gradually step up the attractiveness of the girls you approach.
Conversely, pick the absolute hottest girl you can find in any given situation and approach her. If you have the balls that will cut right through 50 other approaches because once you approach a 10 (if you can find one) you won’t care as much about the 7s. “Well I went up to that Angel in the mall the other day, I can definitely talk to this average a$$ hottie.”
Approach dudes. Yep, you heard me right. Learn to talk to strangers. Ask a guy about his watch. His shoes. The weather. Whatever.
People are nicer overall than you think. It will hone your conversation skills. Just BS with everybody. Might make a friend, who knows. Some guys are d!cks, just like some girls are b!tchy. Who f^cking cares if he is a homophobe or just plain rude, its a guy anyway. Move on. Same principles exist for hot chicks. Some are cool others are not. Youll find out when you talk to them.
Once you learn to do this, hot girls become just people too. You be able to make them laugh and talk about themselves. Dates will follow.
One of my favorite approaches that might help you. Approach a girl about another girl. Its disarming for both of you.
" Hey HB, can I ask you something quick, I need a pretty girls objective opinion on this. I have a date tonight with a pretty girl, what do you think of this shirt."
"Hey HB, can I ask you something quick, I need a pretty girls objective opinion on this. I am talking with this hot chick lately and she just sent me this text. What do you make of it?"
Here is your parlay. For when you get there. “Thanks, lets hope you are right. Give me # and Ill let you know how it goes.”
Remember its just openers. I mean I have had success with them for sure, but you have to be able to parlay. That’s later on though. For now, just use them to conquer approach. You’ll be surprised how nice HB’s can be. They are not the rejection monsters you think they are.
Its not what you say but how you say it.
Once you approach and fail like 100 times, you lose the anxiety and your eyes stay forward, your shoulder stay back, your voice doesn’t crack, your words stay smooth. The outcomes become completely irrelevant to you and you become an expert at both success and rejection. Like anything else, do it enough times and you become an expert. Failure is the seasoning of success.
