"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to finish the deal

Super_Natural_Charm

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Wassup? Anyway straight to the point.
There is this girl on my job and she really likes me shes all over me like a ant on spilled sugar. And I'm pretty sure I could have sex with her whenever I wanted to... (She's really into the friends fuc*ing friends thing) But I'm curious what to say(My job has a bedroom that locks btw ;) . But I'd feel really wierd walking up to her saying "Hey wanna F*ck?" so.. any suggestions? I thought maybe I should take her to the room for a bull**** reason and then just proceed to poke... What do you guys think??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anaconda

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I'd suggest to leave all the girls in the workplace alone. If things sail smoothly, fine. Otherwise, the gossips and sh*t they cook up could kill you. It's even more deadly if she happens to have "feelings" for you and you just use her as a f*ck buddy.
 

So pimp its scary

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True, coworkers is a double edged-sword. It all depends on the girl though...

Anyway, on a more practical note...

if this girl is as into you as you think... "Wanna ****?" would be good enough.
 
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