"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to figure out if a girl likes me....

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HI all,
This is my situation.. there is a girl at work that I really like since she started working.. not more than 2 months ago... well we started good the first day that she was there... I started talking to her and then I got her number and then called her like 4 or more days later. Anyway let me get to the point.. I want to find out if the girl likes me or not..
She is nice with me.. and thats the problem.. that I don't know if she is just beign friendly or she actually likes me.. what can I do to figure it out?
Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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add sexual flirtation. if she responds well, she likes you. unless she's like that with everyone else :) but that's just a tip of an iceberg of advice. i'm sure many forum members will give you some great tips/hints however you may want to call them. good luck with the chick bro!
 
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I take it you are inexperienced... so take the simple road. Call her with the # and invite her out for a cup of hot chocolate and to see a movie.

People will be retarted and say "why a movie?" because HE IS INEXPERIENCED and she is NICE... a movie is a cliche date so she is displaying interest if she accepts. That simple.
 
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And I thought I d never get to see a thread with this title.
 
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Use the Search function with your title, lol, and go down the list, most of the most recent finds will say the same thing as me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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