"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how to figure out if a girl likes me....

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HI all,
This is my situation.. there is a girl at work that I really like since she started working.. not more than 2 months ago... well we started good the first day that she was there... I started talking to her and then I got her number and then called her like 4 or more days later. Anyway let me get to the point.. I want to find out if the girl likes me or not..
She is nice with me.. and thats the problem.. that I don't know if she is just beign friendly or she actually likes me.. what can I do to figure it out?
Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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add sexual flirtation. if she responds well, she likes you. unless she's like that with everyone else :) but that's just a tip of an iceberg of advice. i'm sure many forum members will give you some great tips/hints however you may want to call them. good luck with the chick bro!
 
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I take it you are inexperienced... so take the simple road. Call her with the # and invite her out for a cup of hot chocolate and to see a movie.

People will be retarted and say "why a movie?" because HE IS INEXPERIENCED and she is NICE... a movie is a cliche date so she is displaying interest if she accepts. That simple.
 
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And I thought I d never get to see a thread with this title.
 
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Use the Search function with your title, lol, and go down the list, most of the most recent finds will say the same thing as me
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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