"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to escalate with a very nervous girl

jackson37

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Seeing a movie with my current main plate as our third date and wondering how to escalate to sex or anything more than just making out. First date was a kiss goodbye, second was a make out sesh. The thing is she's very nervous and kind of awkward at times because of it so I'm finding it hard to make moves. How can I make a move during the movie? After the movie? Keep in mind she's
Very nervous so i might catch her off guard.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Johnny Alias

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Alcohol. Seriously.

So last night I went out with a HOT nervous nelly... but the way I work it is to have dinner with chicks close to my house... like a block away. We have some drinks, laugh, put her at ease, and then invite her back so she can give me advice on some home improvements. Chicks love that.

At this point any nervousness is gone and I've got fake tans in my face. Boom.

Movies are BAD for dates. Not saying its the end of the world, but you have no chance to talk or game at all. My two cents.
 
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