"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to escalate with a very nervous girl

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Seeing a movie with my current main plate as our third date and wondering how to escalate to sex or anything more than just making out. First date was a kiss goodbye, second was a make out sesh. The thing is she's very nervous and kind of awkward at times because of it so I'm finding it hard to make moves. How can I make a move during the movie? After the movie? Keep in mind she's
Very nervous so i might catch her off guard.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alcohol. Seriously.

So last night I went out with a HOT nervous nelly... but the way I work it is to have dinner with chicks close to my house... like a block away. We have some drinks, laugh, put her at ease, and then invite her back so she can give me advice on some home improvements. Chicks love that.

At this point any nervousness is gone and I've got fake tans in my face. Boom.

Movies are BAD for dates. Not saying its the end of the world, but you have no chance to talk or game at all. My two cents.
 
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