How to escalate hanging out to better things

[Kev07]

One of my friends IMed me today telling me she lost her phone. I made a comment about what she will do when her ex calls her and tells her about how much he loves her and all that(she told me on friday that she broke up with her bf, but he keeps being clingy, w/e)

after a few IM exchanges, she tells me she wants to hang out tomorrow, so I set up something, just told her I'll give her a call tomorrow and we'll hang out, she asked where, but I kept her guessing( well actually i have no clue where we'll hang out lol)

I've never escalated before, how should I do this?

 

[Docs]

FLIRT with her. Goddamn. How do you expect to progress forward if you were to never attempt to progress forward.

And WHILE you're flirting with her, teasing her or whatnot, you should be running game. I did it online again, just a work chick, but I chatted about mundane stuff, with a dash of flirting, and I blew it wide open when we got into age. And since I read people really well, I know she thinks I'm cute, even though she wouldn't tell me (Exact words from her being... "I don't give compliments easy, so take what you got and smile"), after I asked her for a rating on me on awesomeness and cuteness after she mentioned she thought I was cool.

Point being, you should never NOT flirt with a girl.

 

[Kev07]

I flirt all the time, I hope it's enough

How will I know when to go for it though

 

[Docs]

I flirt all the time, I hope it's enough

How will I know when to go for it though

When you either/combine;
- Setting it up on purpose. (Indirectly discovering her feelings though well selected questions, deductive reasoning)
- Kino Escalation + Give her that look
- Flat out sexual vibe. (You know I want to nail you, and I put it out for you to take me up on that)

Hell, maybe she'll come onto you without you doing a damn thing, that works too!


But that's it. There's no hard fast way about it. You either make it happen or you don't.

 

[Kev07]

Got it. thanks.