"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Okay so I know that you have to make everything about your life exciting. I get that it has to be like everyone wants to hang out with you. I realize you have to be commited to them hanging out with you, but you must be indifferent about what happens.

This works great if you are actually doing something like "going dancing" or doing something exciting.

But any tips or pointers on how to make something as simple as watching a movie at your place, or just hanging out, like that same good time? I mean, would you say something like, "This movie is so great! You will love it. Watching it with me is where its at." I mean yeah, that would work, but doesn't it sound a bit cheesy? Any tips to make that a bit better?

Or if they reject the movie at your place, or just hanging out at your place having some wine, how do you still make it seem like they are missing out?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how do you still make it seem like they are missing out?
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The idea is to be a fun person to be with, so that it doesn't really matter what you're doing; YOU are the reason for them to want to come.
 
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seano is right. i have a friend who is ALWAYS fun to be around its amazing he is a true don juan he's always enjoying life even if he's at home watching tv. watching a movie w/ someone should be no problem if you act like you're hanging out w/ your friends. as my friend says, whenever talking to people just pretend that you've known them for 10 years. hope that helps a bit
 
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