"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Okay so I know that you have to make everything about your life exciting. I get that it has to be like everyone wants to hang out with you. I realize you have to be commited to them hanging out with you, but you must be indifferent about what happens.

This works great if you are actually doing something like "going dancing" or doing something exciting.

But any tips or pointers on how to make something as simple as watching a movie at your place, or just hanging out, like that same good time? I mean, would you say something like, "This movie is so great! You will love it. Watching it with me is where its at." I mean yeah, that would work, but doesn't it sound a bit cheesy? Any tips to make that a bit better?

Or if they reject the movie at your place, or just hanging out at your place having some wine, how do you still make it seem like they are missing out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do you still make it seem like they are missing out?
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The idea is to be a fun person to be with, so that it doesn't really matter what you're doing; YOU are the reason for them to want to come.
 
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seano is right. i have a friend who is ALWAYS fun to be around its amazing he is a true don juan he's always enjoying life even if he's at home watching tv. watching a movie w/ someone should be no problem if you act like you're hanging out w/ your friends. as my friend says, whenever talking to people just pretend that you've known them for 10 years. hope that helps a bit
 
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