"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay so I know that you have to make everything about your life exciting. I get that it has to be like everyone wants to hang out with you. I realize you have to be commited to them hanging out with you, but you must be indifferent about what happens.

This works great if you are actually doing something like "going dancing" or doing something exciting.

But any tips or pointers on how to make something as simple as watching a movie at your place, or just hanging out, like that same good time? I mean, would you say something like, "This movie is so great! You will love it. Watching it with me is where its at." I mean yeah, that would work, but doesn't it sound a bit cheesy? Any tips to make that a bit better?

Or if they reject the movie at your place, or just hanging out at your place having some wine, how do you still make it seem like they are missing out?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how do you still make it seem like they are missing out?
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The idea is to be a fun person to be with, so that it doesn't really matter what you're doing; YOU are the reason for them to want to come.
 
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seano is right. i have a friend who is ALWAYS fun to be around its amazing he is a true don juan he's always enjoying life even if he's at home watching tv. watching a movie w/ someone should be no problem if you act like you're hanging out w/ your friends. as my friend says, whenever talking to people just pretend that you've known them for 10 years. hope that helps a bit
 
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