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How to end a coffee date?

Konada

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Pardon me for asking such a stupid question but really I have no experience with coffee dates so please help me out here.

So I just scheduled a coffee date with a girl I just met. How do I go about ending the date with a kiss close?

1. Send her off at the bus stop and hope for a kiss close.
2. Take the bus to her home and kiss close there.

Suggestions?
 

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Ok thanks Espi for your input, made me realise I was being kind of outcome dependent. Would it be advisable to see her home if the date went well?
 

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The only time I ended up banging a chick first time after a "coffee date", there were special circumstances:

- Met her at night
- Went to get some drinks with her afterwards
- Her place was within easy walking distance of where we met up.

Generally, now I think it is a waste of time, I much prefer to go for a few drinks, but that tends to suit myself a bit better.

And of course, if you are still deluding yourself that you care more about a girl's personality than how poundable her pvssy is in the early stages of meeting her, coffee dates are probably still the way to go.
 

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runner83 said:
And of course, if you are still deluding yourself that you care more about a girl's personality than how poundable her pvssy is in the early stages of meeting her, coffee dates are probably still the way to go.
Wouldn't deny that but I prefer to know what I'm getting into and not looking for a ONS. To each his own.
 
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