Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to end a coffee date?

Konada

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Pardon me for asking such a stupid question but really I have no experience with coffee dates so please help me out here.

So I just scheduled a coffee date with a girl I just met. How do I go about ending the date with a kiss close?

1. Send her off at the bus stop and hope for a kiss close.
2. Take the bus to her home and kiss close there.

Suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Konada

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Ok thanks Espi for your input, made me realise I was being kind of outcome dependent. Would it be advisable to see her home if the date went well?
 

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The only time I ended up banging a chick first time after a "coffee date", there were special circumstances:

- Met her at night
- Went to get some drinks with her afterwards
- Her place was within easy walking distance of where we met up.

Generally, now I think it is a waste of time, I much prefer to go for a few drinks, but that tends to suit myself a bit better.

And of course, if you are still deluding yourself that you care more about a girl's personality than how poundable her pvssy is in the early stages of meeting her, coffee dates are probably still the way to go.
 

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runner83 said:
And of course, if you are still deluding yourself that you care more about a girl's personality than how poundable her pvssy is in the early stages of meeting her, coffee dates are probably still the way to go.
Wouldn't deny that but I prefer to know what I'm getting into and not looking for a ONS. To each his own.
 
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