"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to end a coffee date?

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Pardon me for asking such a stupid question but really I have no experience with coffee dates so please help me out here.

So I just scheduled a coffee date with a girl I just met. How do I go about ending the date with a kiss close?

1. Send her off at the bus stop and hope for a kiss close.
2. Take the bus to her home and kiss close there.

Suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok thanks Espi for your input, made me realise I was being kind of outcome dependent. Would it be advisable to see her home if the date went well?
 

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The only time I ended up banging a chick first time after a "coffee date", there were special circumstances:

- Met her at night
- Went to get some drinks with her afterwards
- Her place was within easy walking distance of where we met up.

Generally, now I think it is a waste of time, I much prefer to go for a few drinks, but that tends to suit myself a bit better.

And of course, if you are still deluding yourself that you care more about a girl's personality than how poundable her pvssy is in the early stages of meeting her, coffee dates are probably still the way to go.
 

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runner83 said:
And of course, if you are still deluding yourself that you care more about a girl's personality than how poundable her pvssy is in the early stages of meeting her, coffee dates are probably still the way to go.
Wouldn't deny that but I prefer to know what I'm getting into and not looking for a ONS. To each his own.
 
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