"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How To Easily Seduce Japanese Girls
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
those japanese sure are creative. They make great cartoons, porn, technology, comedy shows, clothes, and anything else i can think of.
I learned in one of my law classes that in japan, business competition are not allowed to say they are better than any other competition. From this stems creativity since they have to find other unique ways to oust their competition.
In the U.S. you see commercials say things like "Coke has less sugar and calories then pepsi and is preferred by most athletes." This apparently would not be allowed in japan. Instead they'll probably say something like "Coke, does a body good." Then you see the parents replace the milk with coke and then do something ridiculously stupid/funny/creative.
I learned in one of my law classes that in japan, business competition are not allowed to say they are better than any other competition. From this stems creativity since they have to find other unique ways to oust their competition.
In the U.S. you see commercials say things like "Coke has less sugar and calories then pepsi and is preferred by most athletes." This apparently would not be allowed in japan. Instead they'll probably say something like "Coke, does a body good." Then you see the parents replace the milk with coke and then do something ridiculously stupid/funny/creative.
Julius_Seizeher
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I show them big Western wang.
Forty0ztoFreedom
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You mean you don't just start groping them in public buses?
Luthor Rex
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I thought that you could. It happens in all those movies.Forty0ztoFreedom said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I had a colleague from Brazil - and in commercials you could not directly mention or attack other companies or their products.AAAgent said:
Only in the US are they so direct with commercials. It speaks a lot about our culture. We are direct but we are also less *refined* than other cultures. For example, a joke among foreigners is that it is easy to spot a US person in an international airport, they are the ones that are dressed the worst, way too casual, sweatpants, etc.
On the plus side, the directness of US culture means that we are relatively less *devious* than other cultures.
Try doing business in China VS US. In China you will get a headache, you have to be very cunning over there.
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True. I have a friend who just returned from China after 3 years of teaching English, and he told me how much of an outcast they treated him as. He seemed sooo much sharper. He had to get creative to deal with the cutthroatness of the Chinese people. He also said that anything you Buy in the marketplaces there falls apart within a week. When you see "Made in China" on something Probably at a Wal-Mart etc. it's not made by the Chinese, per se, it's made by American companies, equipment, etc, ON Chinese soil.Trader said:
He seemed very disoriented having just got back from over there, just fvcked in the head, But Sharp. Definitely been through the sh!t, I could not imagine weathering that sh!t/treatment as the only white dude.