How to Dump Her?

[Steelie Dan]

Hi All,
I did the mega search of the archievs and did not find the answer to this. I went out with this woman twice. I can tell she really likes me, see was doing alot of touching. I was attracted to her initially, and now I'm not sure I want to keep seeing her. After our second date we kissed alot back at her house. She is looking for a LTR. And she wants to go slow. She is not into jumping into the sack right away, and I'm not sure I want to go there with her. I don't think she is what I'm looking for. Maybe I should not have kissed her initially, but I did. My question is: Without coming up with a bunch of lame excuses (the pattern of a former AFC), I just want to be blunt, but not an *******. Any ideas what to say? Anybody else been in this situation? Should I do this in person? Over the phone? Maybe go out with her one more time to confirm that I'm not interested?

I just want to move on to the next!

thanks.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

You only saw her twice so you can do it over the phone. Tell her the other night that you kissed her you didn't feel any chemistry between the two of you - the vibe just wasn't there. Tell her not to take it personal - this is what 'dating' is for - to see if you are compatible and have 'chemistry' together! (I'm not referring to 'chemistry' class in school either)

 

[Grey Fox]

I think Homer Simpson said it best: "Dear baby, welcome to dumpsville, population YOU.

-Grey Fox

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Grey Fox
I think Homer Simpson said it best: "Dear baby, welcome to dumpsville, population YOU.

-Grey Fox

You can never go wrong with the philosophy of Homer.

DOH!!