"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to Dump Her?

Steelie Dan

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Hi All,
I did the mega search of the archievs and did not find the answer to this. I went out with this woman twice. I can tell she really likes me, see was doing alot of touching. I was attracted to her initially, and now I'm not sure I want to keep seeing her. After our second date we kissed alot back at her house. She is looking for a LTR. And she wants to go slow. She is not into jumping into the sack right away, and I'm not sure I want to go there with her. I don't think she is what I'm looking for. Maybe I should not have kissed her initially, but I did. My question is: Without coming up with a bunch of lame excuses (the pattern of a former AFC), I just want to be blunt, but not an *******. Any ideas what to say? Anybody else been in this situation? Should I do this in person? Over the phone? Maybe go out with her one more time to confirm that I'm not interested?

I just want to move on to the next!

thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You only saw her twice so you can do it over the phone. Tell her the other night that you kissed her you didn't feel any chemistry between the two of you - the vibe just wasn't there. Tell her not to take it personal - this is what 'dating' is for - to see if you are compatible and have 'chemistry' together! (I'm not referring to 'chemistry' class in school either:))
 

Grey Fox

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I think Homer Simpson said it best: "Dear baby, welcome to dumpsville, population YOU.

-Grey Fox
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Grey Fox
I think Homer Simpson said it best: "Dear baby, welcome to dumpsville, population YOU.

-Grey Fox
You can never go wrong with the philosophy of Homer.

DOH!!:p
 
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