"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have been seeing this girl who is 26 she is real fun to be with, always up for a laugh but the problem is she has a kid and she lives in a rough part of town not that i hold that against her because after all everyone has a past.

The other thing is she is slightly on the bigger side somethin i am actually not finding attractive.

So i think i am goin to call it a day but the trouble im having is how will i do this... I was thinking a txt message might be appropriate as we have only been going out a month and i have not met the kid.

Yes i am chicken and maybe i need to grow some balls but i have done the face to face thing in the past and it really it is not nice.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She will hate you more if you do it by text message as she will focus on that fact however you have to ask yourself this question! Do you really care about that enough to go through the face to face breakup. Text message is easier for BOTH parties.
 
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I have never dumped a girl by text before it does seem a bit cruel and harsh... but sometimes we have to be cruel to be kind and after all everyone else looks out for number one in there lives and so shall i.

Idea's for txt's welcome...

Thanks
 
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Just call her up and tell her that even though you've had a good time, you just aren't feeling the chemistry.
 
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Well, the truth is, you shouldn't have started dating her in the first place.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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chris martin said:
I have been seeing this girl who is 26 she is real fun to be with, always up for a laugh but the problem is she has a kid and she lives in a rough part of town not that i hold that against her because after all everyone has a past.
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That's not her "past". That's actually her present.

The other thing is she is slightly on the bigger side somethin i am actually not finding attractive.
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So...why do you even bothered dating her for a month?

So i think i am goin to call it a day but the trouble im having is how will i do this... I was thinking a txt message might be appropriate as we have only been going out a month and i have not met the kid.
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Dude...be a man and do things like a man. Text messaging is the COWARDLY way of doing it. The best thing is looking into her eyes when you talk to her and tell her. If she is far away (other State or Country), then TELEPHONE CALL is the other way.


Yes i am chicken and maybe i need to grow some balls but i have done the face to face thing in the past and it really it is not nice.
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Then you are not equiped to be meeting with women YET. A man has to take responsibilities for his decisions. That's part of being a man.
 
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Im on a psp. I abv. alot. best adv. I evr hrd.

"Im sry. I just dont have those feelins 4 u anymr."
 
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