"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have been seeing this girl who is 26 she is real fun to be with, always up for a laugh but the problem is she has a kid and she lives in a rough part of town not that i hold that against her because after all everyone has a past.

The other thing is she is slightly on the bigger side somethin i am actually not finding attractive.

So i think i am goin to call it a day but the trouble im having is how will i do this... I was thinking a txt message might be appropriate as we have only been going out a month and i have not met the kid.

Yes i am chicken and maybe i need to grow some balls but i have done the face to face thing in the past and it really it is not nice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She will hate you more if you do it by text message as she will focus on that fact however you have to ask yourself this question! Do you really care about that enough to go through the face to face breakup. Text message is easier for BOTH parties.
 
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I have never dumped a girl by text before it does seem a bit cruel and harsh... but sometimes we have to be cruel to be kind and after all everyone else looks out for number one in there lives and so shall i.

Idea's for txt's welcome...

Thanks
 
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Just call her up and tell her that even though you've had a good time, you just aren't feeling the chemistry.
 
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Well, the truth is, you shouldn't have started dating her in the first place.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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chris martin said:
I have been seeing this girl who is 26 she is real fun to be with, always up for a laugh but the problem is she has a kid and she lives in a rough part of town not that i hold that against her because after all everyone has a past.
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That's not her "past". That's actually her present.

The other thing is she is slightly on the bigger side somethin i am actually not finding attractive.
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So...why do you even bothered dating her for a month?

So i think i am goin to call it a day but the trouble im having is how will i do this... I was thinking a txt message might be appropriate as we have only been going out a month and i have not met the kid.
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Dude...be a man and do things like a man. Text messaging is the COWARDLY way of doing it. The best thing is looking into her eyes when you talk to her and tell her. If she is far away (other State or Country), then TELEPHONE CALL is the other way.


Yes i am chicken and maybe i need to grow some balls but i have done the face to face thing in the past and it really it is not nice.
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Then you are not equiped to be meeting with women YET. A man has to take responsibilities for his decisions. That's part of being a man.
 
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Im on a psp. I abv. alot. best adv. I evr hrd.

"Im sry. I just dont have those feelins 4 u anymr."
 
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