"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to dump a "marriage minded girl"

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Ok so I met this sweet Japanese girl, she was hot but desperate to have children and get married. I am not ready to that but she became really attached to me expecting me to get married and have children with her. So what I did was put it in her mind telling her "I don't have a university education, I only make 10,000 a year and I cant support a family on that" I brought it up while we were talking about children in general. And slowly I kept dropping hints of how poor my situation is and slowly she got it in her head that I am not the man she can depend on. So right before she went back home to Japan she said "I think we should be friends" I had fun with her having wild sex but we are still friends. I used this spacific method of down playing myself because I know that psychologically women want a man with power and responsibility when it comes to getting married. She would mention stuff like "I want a big wedding and nice dress" I said "Well huni if I had the money I would and my job doesn't pay me enough" If there is a better way to dump and marriage minded gal then please post.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stop dropping hints, women drop hints. Just tell her what's up.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Stop dropping hints, women drop hints. Just tell her what's up.
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Yeah true. I mean for me its easy to hook up but to break up with her is very hard for I always had problems with this one.
 
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Canadiandon said:
Yeah true. I mean for me its easy to hook up but to break up with her is very hard for I always had problems with this one.
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Just explain to her what you explained to us.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ Tips is for [giving] tips, not asking for them. Please read the forum descriptions in the future before making a post. Moved to DJD.
 
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Soniq red my life is just fine I make over 60,000 a year I just had to lie to get rid of her because she was turning into a stalker. But you guys lie all the time to get girls so dont even try to give me lectures.
 
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Are you White? I heard that there are some loser Asian women out there that are desperate to marry or date any White guy cause Asian guys rejected them long ago. Anyone else notice the phenomenon of "Meh" Asian women dating ugly or dorky White guys?
 
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