"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to dump a "marriage minded girl"

Canadiandon

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Ok so I met this sweet Japanese girl, she was hot but desperate to have children and get married. I am not ready to that but she became really attached to me expecting me to get married and have children with her. So what I did was put it in her mind telling her "I don't have a university education, I only make 10,000 a year and I cant support a family on that" I brought it up while we were talking about children in general. And slowly I kept dropping hints of how poor my situation is and slowly she got it in her head that I am not the man she can depend on. So right before she went back home to Japan she said "I think we should be friends" I had fun with her having wild sex but we are still friends. I used this spacific method of down playing myself because I know that psychologically women want a man with power and responsibility when it comes to getting married. She would mention stuff like "I want a big wedding and nice dress" I said "Well huni if I had the money I would and my job doesn't pay me enough" If there is a better way to dump and marriage minded gal then please post.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Stop dropping hints, women drop hints. Just tell her what's up.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Stop dropping hints, women drop hints. Just tell her what's up.
Yeah true. I mean for me its easy to hook up but to break up with her is very hard for I always had problems with this one.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Canadiandon said:
Yeah true. I mean for me its easy to hook up but to break up with her is very hard for I always had problems with this one.
Just explain to her what you explained to us.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ Tips is for [giving] tips, not asking for them. Please read the forum descriptions in the future before making a post. Moved to DJD.
 

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Soniq red my life is just fine I make over 60,000 a year I just had to lie to get rid of her because she was turning into a stalker. But you guys lie all the time to get girls so dont even try to give me lectures.
 

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Are you White? I heard that there are some loser Asian women out there that are desperate to marry or date any White guy cause Asian guys rejected them long ago. Anyone else notice the phenomenon of "Meh" Asian women dating ugly or dorky White guys?
 
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