"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to dump a "marriage minded girl"

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Ok so I met this sweet Japanese girl, she was hot but desperate to have children and get married. I am not ready to that but she became really attached to me expecting me to get married and have children with her. So what I did was put it in her mind telling her "I don't have a university education, I only make 10,000 a year and I cant support a family on that" I brought it up while we were talking about children in general. And slowly I kept dropping hints of how poor my situation is and slowly she got it in her head that I am not the man she can depend on. So right before she went back home to Japan she said "I think we should be friends" I had fun with her having wild sex but we are still friends. I used this spacific method of down playing myself because I know that psychologically women want a man with power and responsibility when it comes to getting married. She would mention stuff like "I want a big wedding and nice dress" I said "Well huni if I had the money I would and my job doesn't pay me enough" If there is a better way to dump and marriage minded gal then please post.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stop dropping hints, women drop hints. Just tell her what's up.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Stop dropping hints, women drop hints. Just tell her what's up.
Yeah true. I mean for me its easy to hook up but to break up with her is very hard for I always had problems with this one.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Canadiandon said:
Yeah true. I mean for me its easy to hook up but to break up with her is very hard for I always had problems with this one.
Just explain to her what you explained to us.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ Tips is for [giving] tips, not asking for them. Please read the forum descriptions in the future before making a post. Moved to DJD.
 

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Soniq red my life is just fine I make over 60,000 a year I just had to lie to get rid of her because she was turning into a stalker. But you guys lie all the time to get girls so dont even try to give me lectures.
 

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Are you White? I heard that there are some loser Asian women out there that are desperate to marry or date any White guy cause Asian guys rejected them long ago. Anyone else notice the phenomenon of "Meh" Asian women dating ugly or dorky White guys?
 
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