"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to dress on night's out?

SteR

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I'm pretty good with dressing well but this is something that I wonder..

If you're in good shape, ie. got a body worth showing off, is it better to wear a well-fitted t-shirt that shows off your arms/chest/shoulders or a smart long-sleeved shirt?

I know it depends on the venue but I don't think a good t-shirt looks out of place in a bar/club. Plus I think there's a fine line between wearing something that makes you look good and something that makes you look like a guido idiot.

Thoughts/suggestions?

EDIT: ignore my grammatical error in the title.. I meant "nights" not "night's" ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bump, interested in hearing more opinions
 

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I'm personally not a big fan of either. I feel like whenever I go out I'm either seeing dudes in Affliction T-shirts or Long Sleeve buttondowns from their local mall.

I love V-necks.
I'll wear a button down as long as it's out of the ordinary.. not your typical white and blue striped shirt
Long Sleeve fitted shirts (even long sleeve v-necks) fit well if you have a nice frame
T-Shirts are for the gym and lounging
 

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It doesn't matter what you wear.

That being said, I usually wear a gray or black MK2 shirt from Express with a highlighter green t-shirt underneath.

Or just the highlighter green t-shirt. Looks great with blacklights
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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