"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to dress on night's out?

SteR

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I'm pretty good with dressing well but this is something that I wonder..

If you're in good shape, ie. got a body worth showing off, is it better to wear a well-fitted t-shirt that shows off your arms/chest/shoulders or a smart long-sleeved shirt?

I know it depends on the venue but I don't think a good t-shirt looks out of place in a bar/club. Plus I think there's a fine line between wearing something that makes you look good and something that makes you look like a guido idiot.

Thoughts/suggestions?

EDIT: ignore my grammatical error in the title.. I meant "nights" not "night's" ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

SteR

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bump, interested in hearing more opinions
 

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I'm personally not a big fan of either. I feel like whenever I go out I'm either seeing dudes in Affliction T-shirts or Long Sleeve buttondowns from their local mall.

I love V-necks.
I'll wear a button down as long as it's out of the ordinary.. not your typical white and blue striped shirt
Long Sleeve fitted shirts (even long sleeve v-necks) fit well if you have a nice frame
T-Shirts are for the gym and lounging
 

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It doesn't matter what you wear.

That being said, I usually wear a gray or black MK2 shirt from Express with a highlighter green t-shirt underneath.

Or just the highlighter green t-shirt. Looks great with blacklights
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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