Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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just posted a new photo of myself not smiling with my chest hair out. me and this chick matched weeks ago but tonight I added the new pic and she decides to message me first saying hey.

she says in her profile shes been single for awhile by choice. says shes looking for love special someone. loves traveling blah blah blah. she says she got her life together and not into ons.flings and wants mentally stable people only. no druggies,

funny thing is I have schizophrenia, haven't got a job lol.

im just wanting to bang. how would you go about this one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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just posted a new photo of myself not smiling with my chest hair out. me and this chick matched weeks ago but tonight I added the new pic and she decides to message me first saying hey.

she says in her profile shes been single for awhile by choice. says shes looking for love special someone. loves traveling blah blah blah. she says she got her life together and not into ons.flings and wants mentally stable people only. no druggies,

funny thing is I have schizophrenia, haven't got a job lol.

im just wanting to bang. how would you go about this one.
Have you been officially diagnosed with schizophrenia? If so, are you taking your meds? Does your therapist say you are stable enough to have a relationship?
 

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Uhhhhhhh.......I will leave this to RickTheToad. Not touching it!
 

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Have you been officially diagnosed with schizophrenia? If so, are you taking your meds? Does your therapist say you are stable enough to have a relationship?
Yeah i take the meds. I have being diagnosed with it.
funny this new chick says the same **** in her profile as another chick that i have been talking to for three years on the phone for. Both online profiles talk about the same **** No ONS no alcoholic druggies etc etc. the girl i have talked to on the phone for has ****ed mutiple guys since i have been talking to her and they all except one leave on her. heaps of guys wanna be with her too and she turns them down because she doesn't like them. If i get this new chick on the phone shes going to wanna come over. I've got a house which is 45 mins away from her according to tinder.

Reason I havent banged that other chick over 3 years is because she lives in a different country and different part of the country where I used to live.

It just looks like this new chick has cash which the other chick hasn't got enough to travel with. I dunno how to deal with that. I certainly don't look like I have cash in my pics or not trying to show that off in my pic at all and just trying to do it all on looks alone. going out to pubs is the same **** you can wear crap clothes or good clothes and the girls just are interested. If I went out 7 nights a week I reckon I could pull often but being able to actually go out that much is a feat in itself.
 
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Yeah i take the meds. I have being diagnosed with it.
funny this new chick says the same **** in her profile as another chick that i have been talking to for three years on the phone for. Both online profiles talk about the same **** No ONS no alcoholic druggies etc etc. the girl i have talked to on the phone for has ****ed mutiple guys since i have been talking to her and they all except one leave on her. heaps of guys wanna be with her too and she turns them down because she doesn't like them. If i get this new chick on the phone shes going to wanna come over. I've got a house which is 45 mins away from her according to tinder.

Reason I havent banged that other chick over 3 years is because she lives in a different country and different part of the country where I used to live.

It just looks like this new chick has cash which the other chick hasn't got enough to travel with. I dunno how to deal with that. I certainly don't look like I have cash in my pics or not trying to show that off in my pic at all and just trying to do it all on looks alone. going out to pubs is the same **** you can wear crap clothes or good clothes and the girls just are interested. If I went out 7 nights a week I reckon I could pull often but being able to actually go out that much is a feat in itself.
Maybe she just wants some d ick. Usually though, when they say that, they are the opposite. So, she's prob. DTF.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maybe she just wants some d ick. Usually though, when they say that, they are the opposite. So, she's prob. DTF.
messaged me at 1am. I txted back at 4.30am. never got a reply. I think she just wanted to bang.
 

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messaged me at 1am. I txted back at 4.30am. never got a reply. I think she just wanted to bang.
Need to react faster dude on these apps. When I was on bumble last year, I need to respond fast or NEXT. When I did, I had too many numbers and scheduling was a nightmare. I can only imagine what it is like for a female (there are no ladies on Tinder).
 

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Need to react faster dude on these apps. When I was on bumble last year, I need to respond fast or NEXT. When I did, I had too many numbers and scheduling was a nightmare. I can only imagine what it is like for a female (there are no ladies on Tinder).
had another one message me. I message her 3 hours later and no reply.
your right I need to be on the ball. some other guy or the whole football team has probably gone balls deep in her before I messaged her back.
 

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just posted a new photo of myself not smiling with my chest hair out. me and this chick matched weeks ago but tonight I added the new pic and she decides to message me first saying hey.

she says in her profile shes been single for awhile by choice. says shes looking for love special someone. loves traveling blah blah blah. she says she got her life together and not into ons.flings and wants mentally stable people only. no druggies,

funny thing is I have schizophrenia, haven't got a job lol.

im just wanting to bang. how would you go about this one.
Personally I'd just ask her to meet up somewhere, take her for an icecream and a walk and then use some pretext to bring her back to your place and bang her. If she doesn't want to go along with it, then move on to the next. Try not to mention that you think the CIA are out to get you and that you don't have a job or anything like that. If she asks about your job, make something up. If you're just looking to bang, it's really none of her business anyway.
 
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