"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My six months off is up soon so refreshing tactics.

Back in the day one thing served me well.

I used to triage chicks with coffee dates to save $ and screen out professional daters. MO was line up 3 on a week night. If one flaked I d hang out and chat with the staff.

I had a local cafe that I tipped in was cool and known as a regular.

Problem is I have bought a cool house but the area is struggle town. Cafes and bars r rubbish. Obviously closer is better.

Question is how far away is too far. If a chick wants to bang that night which I ve had happen is a half hour car ride gonna make them cool off. And what r some good ways to keep the romantic vibe up in the car
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ubercat said:
My six months off is up soon so refreshing tactics.

Back in the day one thing served me well.

I used to triage chicks with coffee dates to save $ and screen out professional daters. MO was line up 3 on a week night. If one flaked I d hang out and chat with the staff.

I had a local cafe that I tipped in was cool and known as a regular.

Problem is I have bought a cool house but the area is struggle town. Cafes and bars r rubbish. Obviously closer is better.

Question is how far away is too far. If a chick wants to bang that night which I ve had happen is a half hour car ride gonna make them cool off. And what r some good ways to keep the romantic vibe up in the car
We all know women love adventure. Could you take them to a decent place somewhere close to your work and then sneak into work at night and b@ng them?

True story here. When I worked for the State my boss and I became really good friends. At one time we were getting lit together 2-3 nights a week..

Once he made a joke that my office was a mess and he could go have sex on my desk and I would never notice. Bad thought there boss :nono: So what did I do?

I actually DID, one night, take a woman out on like date #2 to a bar that was 1/2 block from the office. Then went back to the office and fvcked her on his desk.. The HB said she had never had such a danger/excitement experience in her life!! And Monday morning first thing I said "see that spot on your desk there.... Right there... That's where HB and I fvcked at Saturday night!!" Ooooohh man I've never seen anyone clean a desk off so viciously!!! :crackup: He had every cleaning chemical he could find and must scrubbed that desk for over an hour.. While the rest of the office and I just laughed at him (with him in good humor)! We were a tight group there so everyone got in on it and got a laugh out of it!

Not saying to do this for you, but if you could sneak in to a bathroom or something at your work I'm sure that still would be a night she will never forget!! :rockon:
 

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LL yr a crack up LMAO. Yeah one of my work places had bean bags and a harbour view nuff said. And dropping into work on nights where I ve been micro dating a chick around bats 3/3 for me - nfi just an observation.

Anyway back on target. Must b plenty of guys who triage for the same reasons I do. I get the impression the US is full of women who r professional daters. Its no different in Aus.

How do u guys do it?
 
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