"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My six months off is up soon so refreshing tactics.

Back in the day one thing served me well.

I used to triage chicks with coffee dates to save $ and screen out professional daters. MO was line up 3 on a week night. If one flaked I d hang out and chat with the staff.

I had a local cafe that I tipped in was cool and known as a regular.

Problem is I have bought a cool house but the area is struggle town. Cafes and bars r rubbish. Obviously closer is better.

Question is how far away is too far. If a chick wants to bang that night which I ve had happen is a half hour car ride gonna make them cool off. And what r some good ways to keep the romantic vibe up in the car
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ubercat said:
My six months off is up soon so refreshing tactics.

Back in the day one thing served me well.

I used to triage chicks with coffee dates to save $ and screen out professional daters. MO was line up 3 on a week night. If one flaked I d hang out and chat with the staff.

I had a local cafe that I tipped in was cool and known as a regular.

Problem is I have bought a cool house but the area is struggle town. Cafes and bars r rubbish. Obviously closer is better.

Question is how far away is too far. If a chick wants to bang that night which I ve had happen is a half hour car ride gonna make them cool off. And what r some good ways to keep the romantic vibe up in the car
We all know women love adventure. Could you take them to a decent place somewhere close to your work and then sneak into work at night and b@ng them?

True story here. When I worked for the State my boss and I became really good friends. At one time we were getting lit together 2-3 nights a week..

Once he made a joke that my office was a mess and he could go have sex on my desk and I would never notice. Bad thought there boss :nono: So what did I do?

I actually DID, one night, take a woman out on like date #2 to a bar that was 1/2 block from the office. Then went back to the office and fvcked her on his desk.. The HB said she had never had such a danger/excitement experience in her life!! And Monday morning first thing I said "see that spot on your desk there.... Right there... That's where HB and I fvcked at Saturday night!!" Ooooohh man I've never seen anyone clean a desk off so viciously!!! :crackup: He had every cleaning chemical he could find and must scrubbed that desk for over an hour.. While the rest of the office and I just laughed at him (with him in good humor)! We were a tight group there so everyone got in on it and got a laugh out of it!

Not saying to do this for you, but if you could sneak in to a bathroom or something at your work I'm sure that still would be a night she will never forget!! :rockon:
 

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LL yr a crack up LMAO. Yeah one of my work places had bean bags and a harbour view nuff said. And dropping into work on nights where I ve been micro dating a chick around bats 3/3 for me - nfi just an observation.

Anyway back on target. Must b plenty of guys who triage for the same reasons I do. I get the impression the US is full of women who r professional daters. Its no different in Aus.

How do u guys do it?
 
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